The Magic of Slow Living
Life feels like a whirlwind sometimes, doesn’t it? The days rush past in a blur, and before you know it, another week is gone. But here’s the thing—we don’t have to live that way. By embracing the magic of simple living, we can slow down, savor the little things, and truly enjoy life.
Think of it as your guide to simple living, helping you rediscover joy in the everyday moments.
When my kids were little, life felt like one never-ending track meet. My day would start with a quick warm-up—a precious five minutes with my coffee, maybe even a shower if I was lucky. Then, I’d launch right into my morning sprint, getting everyone fed and out the door.
After that, it was time for the marathon: cleaning, cooking, tackling the garden, barn chores, and, of course, cleaning some more. And just when I thought I was catching my breath, the relay began—driving kids to practices and games.
What came next? Another sprint, naturally! Dinner, cleanup, and homework. Every single day followed the same exhausting rhythm until I collapsed into bed, no medal ceremony in sight.
Now, it’s just me, my husband, and our dog at home. Things have slowed down a lot—but for a while, I was still stuck in track meet mode. Even when I realized I had to make a change, I just kept pushing at the same pace because, honestly, I didn’t know how to stop.
What is Simple Living?
Simple living is about finding easier, smarter ways to handle the daily tasks that come with being a mom, a wife, and running a home. How often do we push ourselves to do it all, just because we see other women doing the same?
But here’s the secret—not everything has to be a juggling act.
When you simplify those everyday tasks, you create little pockets of time for yourself. That’s when you start noticing the little joys you’ve been missing out on, like sipping your coffee in peace, taking a quiet evening stroll, or having a meaningful chat with a friend.
By adding a touch of simplicity to your life, you’ll find more room to really enjoy your days instead of letting them rush by.
Check out some of our favorite Books on Simple Living for more inspiration.
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The Magic of Slow Living
Slow living is about being present. It means valuing quality over quantity—not just with your stuff, but with your time, relationships, and day-to-day life. Instead of packing your day with a never ending to-do list, you pause to ask, “What do I truly need to focus on today?” It’s about finding balance and letting go of the pressure to “do it all.”
That’s what drew me to the idea of slow living.
It’s not about being lazy, and it’s definitely not about giving up responsibilities. Instead, it’s a shift in how you approach your days.
Now, if you’re like me, the idea probably sounds dreamy, but not exactly practical. After all, who has the time to slow down when there are a million things on your plate? But here’s what I’ve learned through trial (and plenty of error): slow living isn’t about doing less for the sake of it. It’s about doing what matters, and doing it with intention.
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1. Simplify Your Schedule
One of the easiest ways to make space for slow living is by simplifying your schedule. I used to say “yes” to everything because I didn’t want to disappoint anyone. But that left me feeling burned out and frazzled.
Here’s what worked for me:
Start Saying No
You don’t have to attend every event, put out every fire, or be the go-to person for every request. Instead, focus on commitments that genuinely matter—not just for the person asking, but for you too.
And here’s a big learning moment for me: It’s okay to say no to our kids. I used to think I’d disappoint them, but I’ve realized they understand more than we often give them credit for.
Prioritize What Actually Matters
Each morning, choose three things that absolutely need to get done. These are the tasks that, even if everything else falls apart, you can feel good about accomplishing. This simple practice gives a sense of purpose and keeps the overwhelm away.
Try This:
Start your mornings with a cup of coffee and your daily planner. Jot down the top three tasks you want to tackle that day. It could be something small like cleaning out the fridge or something practical like scheduling an eye appointment. Having a plan in place helps you focus and creates more space for the things that truly matter.
2. Create a Morning Ritual
Mornings set the tone for the rest of your day. If you wake up and immediately jump into chores or emails, you’re already feeling overwhelmed before you’ve finished breakfast. Instead, take 15–30 minutes to create a calming morning ritual. It’s amazing how even a few intentional moments can shift your mindset.
Here are some ideas to get you started:
Enjoy Your Coffee in Peace
Brew that coffee and actually sit down to savor it. No distractions, no multitasking, just you and the quiet stillness of the morning. If the weather is nice, head outside and soak up a bit of nature. Trust me, a few minutes outdoors can reset your mind and set a more positive tone for the day.
Stretch or Take a Walk
Dedicate 10 minutes to stretching your muscles or taking a short walk. As we get older, caring for our bodies should be a top priority. Stretching and moving first thing in the morning can help you feel more energized and ready to take on the day. Breathe deeply, clear your thoughts, pray, or simply enjoy a moment of peace before the hustle begins.
Journal Your Thoughts
Wrap up your morning ritual by jotting down a few reflections. Write about three things from the day before that made you smile or brought you joy. I love this journal and how easy it is to use and reflect. This simple practice can help you notice and appreciate life’s little moments throughout the day.
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Try This:
Set your alarm 20 minutes earlier tomorrow and test out a few of these ideas. See how they make you feel and what kind of positive impact they have on the rest of your day. Sometimes, the smallest adjustments have the biggest rewards.
3. Declutter One Space at a Time
Clutter can creep up on all of us, especially as we’ve lived through different phases of life and accumulated more than we need. But here’s the thing about clutter: it doesn’t just take up physical space; it clutters your mind as well. Whether it’s random stuff piling up on your countertops, an overstuffed closet of clothes you don’t wear, or a chaotic drawer filled with phone chargers, pens, and old receipts, it can feel completely overwhelming.
Decluttering isn’t just about downsizing when you’re older; it’s for anyone looking to live more simply and create a sense of ease in their surroundings. Downsizing is freedom, not sacrifice.
Here are a few tips that can help you get started:
- Start Small: Every time you open a drawer, cabinet, or closet, do a quick scan. Look for items you no longer use, need, or is more than is reasonable.
- Ask Yourself Questions: Is what I’m holding realistic for my life today? Do I truly need it, or is it just taking up space?
- Donate or Discard: If it’s excess or no longer needed, pass it along to someone who can use it or simply toss it. Holding onto items just because you have the storage space doesn’t mean they’re adding value to your life.
- Be Intentional: Pay attention to what you’re keeping and why. By freeing up physical space, you create mental clarity and fewer distractions in your day-to-day life. Plus, the less you have out, the easier it is to clean!
Try This:
Pick one small area to tackle this week. It could be your kitchen junk drawer, a bathroom cabinet, or that shelf in the garage you keep ignoring. Set a timer for 20 minutes, and focus on removing items you don’t need.
Once the timer goes off, admire your progress and enjoy the lighter feeling that an uncluttered space brings. Little by little, you’ll notice the difference and start to enjoy the extra breathing room—not just in your home, but in your mind too.
4. Find Time to Unplug
I’ll admit, this one’s a tough one—even for me. Technology brings so much to our lives, but it can also quietly steal time away if we’re not careful. How easy is it to lose an hour (or more) scrolling through social media? Trust me, I’m not immune—I love a funny cat video as much as anyone. And how often do we respond to non-urgent emails right away, just because they’re there?
Unplugging doesn’t mean giving everything up; it’s about being more intentional. (Are you seeing a theme here?) It helps you stay present for the moments that really matter. Spend time with friends, have a heart-to-heart with your child, or play cards with your spouse. Real-life connections are what stick with us.
Here’s what’s helped me unplug:
- Set Boundaries
I like to use a timer on my phone for social media scrolling. This way, I can still enjoy it without letting it take over my entire day. - Make Meals a No-Phone Zone
During family dinners or my personal “me time,” I keep my phone on silent or in another room. It’s amazing how freeing it feels to give your full attention to the people (and moments) right in front of you. - Plan Screen-Free Evenings
Once a week, dedicate an evening to a hobby, a good book, or quality time with your loved ones. No screens, no distractions. It’s time to rediscover what fills your cup.
Try This:
Take a step back in time and bring some “old-school” fun back into your home. Write a handwritten letter to a friend, play a round of cards with your family, or take a walk (without earbuds or a phone).
Start small and see how these little unplugged moments create much bigger memories. Who knows? You might even enjoy it enough to make unplugging a regular part of your routine.
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5. Carve Out “Me” Time
For years, I thought self-care was either indulgent or even a little selfish. Now that I’m older, I see it differently. Self-care is essential. It’s not a luxury; it’s a necessity that helps me get through my days more easily. You can’t pour from an empty cup, and taking care of yourself is one of the best ways to show up fully for the people who depend on you.
Here are a few simple ways to prioritize “me” time:
- Take an Afternoon Walk
A short walk can do wonders for your mind and body. It clears your head, gets you moving, and gives you a dose of fresh air. Since I started walking, I’ve noticed a big difference in my energy levels. Instead of crashing every afternoon, I now step outside when I feel a slump coming. It’s such an easy way to refresh yourself. - Pamper Yourself at Home
When was the last time you truly treated yourself? A warm bath, a face mask, or even slipping into your coziest clothes can feel rejuvenating. These small moments of care have a big impact. - Spend Time on a Hobby You Love
Doing something you love—even for just 20 minutes a day—is so important. Whether it’s gardening, baking, painting, or something else, these moments are yours to enjoy. If you don’t have a hobby, try something new.
What I’m Doing: I recently started painting rocks. It might sound a little silly, but it’s relaxing, fun, and helps me focus on the present. Plus, I love hiding the painted rocks around the house for my grandkids to discover. Their joy makes it even more rewarding.
Taking time for yourself isn’t selfish; it’s an important part of your health and vitality. Give yourself permission to slow down and prioritize your own well-being. Everyone in your life benefits when you do.
6. Nurture Your Relationships
One of the best parts of slow living is creating more space for meaningful connections. Instead of rushing through conversations or squeezing in quick visits, take the time to truly enjoy quality moments with the people you care about.
Here are a few ideas that have worked for me:
- Schedule a Coffee Date or Walk with a Friend
A simple, distraction-free catch-up session is good for your friend and even better for you. There’s something so refreshing about connecting face-to-face without distractions that can make that time so good for your soul. - Cook a Meal Together as a Family
Turn dinner into something more enjoyable rather than a chore. Try something fun like making personalized mini pizzas with refrigerator biscuits, or host a family potluck where everyone contributes a dish. Even younger children can contribute! Not only is it a great bonding experience, but it might just turn into a beloved family tradition. - Write a Letter
If you have an older relative who lives far away or can’t get out often, take the time to write them a letter. Include a couple of photos or share happy memories. Not only will they treasure your thoughtful gesture, but you’ll rediscover joy in reliving those special moments. - Plan a Date Night
Don’t put your relationship with your spouse on the back burner. Something as simple as a quiet evening at home, a long drive, or a low-key dinner out can do wonders in keeping your connection strong.
The truth is, you don’t need extravagant plans to feel close to your loved ones. Often, it’s the small, everyday moments that mean the most. Prioritize those, and you’ll nurture relationships that last a lifetime.
The Magic Happens in the Small Moments
Slow living doesn’t mean your life will suddenly be free from responsibilities, but it does mean you can approach them differently. By letting go of the need to do it all and focusing on what truly matters to you right now, you’ll discover a sense of peace and joy you might not have felt in years.
Remember, the magic of slow living is in those small, quiet moments you create for yourself. Take it one step at a time, knowing that each small shift brings you closer to a life that’s fuller, calmer, and more meaningful. After all, isn’t that what we’re all striving for?
